21 October 2013

Unsettled times....

Hello everyone.. The last few days have been very unsettling for me and mum and dad.I am so very unsettled and the awful confusion is taking over me. It really seems as though I just don't know what is happening to me and the worst thing is that no matter what mum and dad try I am just not eating food . I go to the food sometimes and look and very occasionally will eat a very tiny amount but it is tiny and it is very occasionally.Mum is trying everything and is throwing away at least three lots a day and trying different things each time. I have no weight on at all and when I am picked up am as light as a feather. Mum says I am bone with fur on top which is what I feel like. I am virtually surviving on cat milk which at least has some vitamins. The worst thing is that I just yowl the awful noise of confusion and mum gets upset and tries to see what she can do which is of course nothing as I don't know what I want. Today it is raining very hard and I have been asking to go out which I only do with either mum or dad and usually hate the rain. I have gone out in the rain because I asked so loudly and just stood there all confused and got very wet in just a couple of minutes. Dad said no Jasper stay here with us but I didn't know what I wanted. Mum took these when I had been out and maybe you can see a little of how small I have become.




             I am so very tiny now. The worst is not knowing what to do for the best. How can I go so long with such a tiny amount of food if any most days. I am even some days bringing my medicine back straight away, I suppose that's because there is nothing in my stomach. Mum is on late shifts the next few and doesn't finish until 11:00pm with on call in the night so we may not get to visit a lot. I shall be with dad and he cant do the blog.  Love and hugs my friends. GJ xx

113 comments:

Fuzzy Tales said...

GJ, we're sending you Love and Light, for your Highest Good. Only you and your humans can decide when you have no quality of life left and what to do when you reach that point. We're purring for you all, sending blessings.

(((Hugs)))

milocat said...

GJ, sending you so much love and healing. We're all worried about you and want you to be well.
We know your mom and dad will be worrying too so we're sending them love and hugs.
PURRS.

Hannah and Lucy said...

GJ you look so sad in your pictures and Mum's got weepy eyes. We know your Mum and Dad will be very worried about you and you need to try a few more mouthfuls of food.
We are sending more purrs, hugs and kisses to you all.
Luv Hannah and Lucy xx xx

Terri said...

I can suggest plain meat baby food. I've usually been able to get them to eat that over anything else. We're sending lots of purrs and hugs. It is just so hard on everyone who loves you.

Punapippuri said...

GJ, we send you much love, and also to your Mum and Dad. This is a very distressing time for all of you, and you know all paws are crossed across the world, in every single corner of it for you and your Beans. Purrs xxxx

YVONNE LEWIS: said...

I send you all my love, I know dad will look after you well. Don't get upset GJ, you WILL eat better soon and feel better.
Take care, thinking of you.
Yvonne.

JC said...

Oh Ginger.
My heart breaks.
I am so sorry.

xo,
JC

Andrea and the Celestial Kitties said...

Hugs and purrs and prayers, GJ. We love you!

Old Kitty said...

Oh beautiful GJ. You are doing the best you can and so is mum and dad. We don't really know what to say - except that you are in the best place with mum and dad. You just keep down whatever you can - and we like the suggestion of meat baby food. Perhaps any meaty paste is worth a try? So long as you are hydrated - so the milk is a good thing. Poor sweet baby. We are sending you many purrs and hugs and lots and lots of love. We are heartsick to see you so tiny. You just rest now. Take care
x

ra husky said...

Love an prayers an husky woooos my little furiend,

RA

Brian said...

We all love you so very much GJ, you are just like family to us. You just do what you can my friend and don't be afraid to tell your Mom and Dad when you can do no more. They will do what they must for you because the love you GJ. Gentle hugs my friend.

Angel and Kirby said...

Sweet Jasper, we are so sorry that life has dealt you this hand of confusion. We know it is scarey for you and your mom and dad. We love you and are sending purrs and love.

Katnip Lounge said...

GJ, we are very sad that you are so low...we are purring that you will be able to continue, but if not, we are purring for you to go peacefully into the next world. We're sending our love to you, and your Mum and Dad.

Mommy says your Mum should take a day off to spend with you...just because.
xoxoxo

Sparkle said...

I am so sorry you are so poorly, GJ. It makes me sad that you're confused and won't eat. I'm sending lots of purrs your way - PLEASE feel at least a little better!

Ann Adamus said...

You are all in our prayers.

Marg said...

Oh GJ we sure are sorry that you are feeling so poorly. We sure send tons and ton of purrs and lots of prayers too. We also send many hugs to the Mum and Dad. Wishing you the best.

HH and The Boys said...

So sorry that you are having such a terrible time GJ... We are all purring for you over here and will drop by to see how are your doing. Tell you mom and dad that we are all thinking of them too as we know how hard this is on them.

Love you all.

hugs, Bugsy, Knuckles, and HH

Forty Paws said...

Oh GJ, we are sending you tons of hugs, headbutts, purrs and purrayers that you will eat some and not be so confused. It is so difficult not feeling well, and losing a ton of weight is even worse.

Luf and hugs, Us and Maw

The Meezers or Billy said...

oh GJ - we are purrring hard for you buddy. and we are sending lots of purrrss to your mum and dad

Maggie May said...

It breaks our hearts to read how poorly you are feeling these days, Jasper. You are one of our favorite friends and we wish so badly you felt better and were eating. We are sending you our very best comforting purrs during this very confusing time for you. Please eat, dear friend.
XOXO
Maggie May and The Creek Cats

ANGEL ABBY said...

GJ we all know you are doing the best that you can and that your Mom and Dad are too. It is a very scary time for them right now, things feel so uncertain and very troubling and unsettling. They love you so deeply GJ. We are purring for all of you with the greatest of heartfelt purrs.

Khyra And Sometimes Her Mom said...

Mom knows all too well what woo must feel like -

The Doggy Nanny's Persian Cholla was just as woo deskhribe -

Please eat something -

As fur the rains, please let me channel your sponging -

Hugz&Khysses,
Khyra

Cheysuli and gemini said...

We are purring very hard for you GJ. Your folks love you very much and we are purring for them too because we know this is hard for them to see you like this-

Meg & Quill said...

Oh GJ we're so sorry you're feeling so poorly my friend. Mom sends her biggest hugs to your people and we send you our deepest purrs.

The Florida Furkids said...

Oh sweetheart, it makes us so sad to hear that you're doing poorly. Please eat something. We love you so much and we know your Mom and Dad love you and are worried about you.

The Florida Furkids and Mom Sharon

Robyn Harton said...

GJ, we're sad to see you feeling so poorly. The Hoytties are send you lots and lots of love and purrs and p8urrayers.

The Monkeys said...

Oh Jasper, we are all purring for you to feel better soon! We love you so much!

Golden Woofs! SUGAR said...

Sending you Lots of Golden LOVE. Lots of Golden Woofs, Sugar

Katie Isabella said...

Jasper I can't tell you the heartache I feel having read this. It reminds me of my Admiral in her last month or so and it is just heartbreaking to hear the yowling and not be able to help as Admiral did the same...to see our babies eat so little. I am so sorry dearest sweetest little handsome boy. I send LOTS and lots and LOTS of love and to ALL of you...not just you my handsome boy. ALL my love.

Katie and Mom

catsynth said...

Sending good thoughts and purrs for Ginger Jasper and his family.

Marilynn said...

We're sending lots of purrrrrrrrssssss and prayers and hugs to you and all your family. Grace & Company don't know, but I have known this kind of pain and indecision. Just know that we love you ...

{{{{hugs}}}}

Marilynn, Grace & Company

Julia @ Purr Therapy said...

Oh sweet GJ, I am sorry you are doing poorly and that you are all so distressed. I wish there was something I could say or do to make it better. I can only send you lots of purrs, love and light.

Madi and Mom said...

Dear sweet GJ...we are heart sick to read of your health and the confusion must be very concerning for all of you. What a brave and loyal companion you are to stay close by...your wonderful parents.
We love you and sen prayers!
Mad and mom.

Colehaus Cats said...

We are sad that life is so trying for you right now. We're sending you our very best comforting purrs, not only for you but for your mom and dad. purrs.....

JB's Big and Small Worlds said...

We are so sorry you are doing poorly. We send our love and hugs and comforting purrs to you and your mum and dad.

onespoiledcat said...

Ginger Jasper....my heart goes out to you....I know you are confused and uncomfortable and wondering what's going on. It's not fair is it. You look very unhappy and not at all well. I am sending you all my extra energy buddy - and a lot of healing hugs and hope - most of all hope. You have a lot of friends pulling for you and you and I don't know each other but we are cat brothers regardless.

Love and light...
Your Friend, Sammy

The Island Cats said...

GJ, we are purring for you and your mum and dad. You know how much we all love you. oxoxox

BeadedTail said...

Jasper, it breaks our heart that you are doing so poorly. We continue to pray for you to eat and be able to enjoy whatever time we have left together. Sending you, your mum and dad lots of love, hugs and purrayers.

Everycat said...

Little GJ, me and The Ape are sending you so much love and I am purring up a storm to comfort you.

Let your Mum and Dad love on you and be with you. This storm inside won't last forever, there will be peace.

We are so sorry and wish we could wave a paw and make you well again little one

Mungo & Jane the Ape xx

Uji, Izzy, Ziggy, Missi + Hiro said...

Wee is so sorrisome yoo is feelin so poorly GJ, da confushun is neva nice our brofur Ritchie dids gets it n it dids brake our Momsters heart to see him likes it.
Pleese try n eats somefing soon our furiend.
Wee is sendin our bestest Crestie healin vibes, pawsitive forts n prayers fur yoo

Lov
Da K Krew
XxxxxX

savannahspawtracks.com said...

I don't know you very well GJ, but I knew you on Twitter when you got your aviator license, Nissy told me. And I know you will tell Mom and Dad when you are too tired to carry on...luvluvluv you, paw pats, Savannah

Mo and The Purries said...

Sending love & good vibes from all of us at Purrchance To Dream.

Parker said...

Love and hugs to you Ginger. Purrs are coming your way from across the pond (((hugs))) too

Austin Towers said...

GJ I have come over to share some special purrs with you because Ann said you were not doing very well at the moment. Sending so much love and hugs to you and your mom and dad. Austin (and the human) xoxox

Random Felines said...

oh honey....we are sending purrs to you and your mom and dad.....

The Kewl~Kitty~Krew said...

Oh GJ, YOU WERE ONE OF OUR FIRST FRIENDS...WE HOPE YOU GET BETTER SOON...

Sweet Purrfections said...

Our mom has leaking eyes reading this. It's hard to put into words, but she feels she still has a connection to Sweet Praline through you.

We know you're not feeling well and that your mum and dad are doing everything they can for you. We're sending you our purrs and purrayers. We love you.

Alasandra, The Cats and Dogs said...

We will be purring for you GJ. You are always in our thoughts. Lots of hugs and love for all of you. Healing and comforting purrs.

Mark's Mews (Ayla, Iza, and Marley) said...

Oh GJ, I remember when Skeeter started walking into the shower box with TBT years ago. Our best Purrs of Comfort to you... ~ Ayla

Jan's Funny Farm said...

GJ, you look so sad and we can imagine your mom & dad's sadness. They love you so much and want the best for you. We all do. We hope you can start eating and keeping food down soon. Hugs, purrs & pawtaps

Angel Junior, Orion and Sammy said...

We do hope you try to eat some more GJ. Stick close to your Mum and Dad!

Tom, Tama-Chan, Sei-Chan, Bibi-Chan, Gen-Chan, Vidock, Violette said...

We love you, GJ.

Purrs, Woofs, Neighs and Hugs,
Tama-Chan, Sei-Chan, Bibi-Chan, Gen-Chan, Tommy, Vidock, Violette and #1

katsrus said...

Ginger Jasper my thoughts and prayers are with you sweet kitty. Purrs and hugs.
Sue B
Charlie, Cashew, Garfield, Tubby

Laila and Minchie said...

GJ, we are sending lots of love, hugs and purrs your way. We are sad you are feeling so poorly.

Tails from the Foster Kittens said...

Full throated purrs for you

Tinker and Tom said...

GJ, you have been a dear friend for a long time now and we feel your hurt, confusion and pain. We are so sorry about all you are going through and would do absolutely anything for you to make things better.

We're pretty attached to your mom and dad, too, and know they must be beside themselves with worry for you.

We love you all. xx

Mom Julie, Angel Tom, Tinker, Chopin and Anastasia

Asta said...

Dear Jaspew
I can see that yoo awe a bootiful light littol bundle of fuw and my heawt is sad weading that you can't eat and awe confoosed and don't know what to do..i wish i had a magic wand and coold make yoo all bettew
Please take my stweangth and love and let it help you and yoow pawents. I am cwossing my paws fow you and Mommi is pwaying fow a miwacul.

We love you so vewy much
Smoochie kisses
Asta

Deb Barnes - Zee and Zoey said...

Oh Jasper darling, our heart goes out to you. We pray you find the strength to eat... we know it is not easy for you and that it is scary because your human's are so very worried about you. Purrs and prayers from all of us at Zee & Zoey's.

Jo's World said...

Do you think it is time, Ginger Jasper? Let your Mom and Dad know and they will help you along. We send you our love and POTP, hoping for the very best outcome.

Stella, Zkhat and Jo

Scout and Freyja said...

God bless you. God love you.

Kari said...

Oh darling Jasper, our hearts are breaking. We, and all of your friends all over the world, are praying our hardest for you. It is crushing to
know how unwell you feel and how
powerless we are to help. You are
loved like you are our very own. We
beg God to grant you the serenity to
be able to relax and enjoy your days
in peace and comfort. All of our love
to you, ALWAYS.
P.S. Have you tried Lick E Lix by Webbox. We will sometimes eat something like that when nothing else will do. God bless you, sweetheart.

Prancer Pie said...

We know your Mum and Dad will do what's best for you. Sending lots of purrs and purrayers for you and them, GJ. You are still a very handsome mancat. XOXO

Mariodacat said...

Awwww we're purring for you here and M has you in her purayers. Mom and dad will make the right decisions because they love you very much. M sends HUGS to your humans.

Frankie Furter and Ernie said...

Dear GJ... I (Frankie Furter) Well remember almost exactly TWO YEARS AGO when you went through this not wanting to eat and feeling soooooo very sick. Do you think that it might be a Seasonal thingy brought on by some Plant or Bug or Fungus?
I remember your mum and dad just hoping that you would make it to the holidays back then... and Suddenly you started Looking and Feeling like yourself. I PRAY that it will be the same THIS time. Please PLEASE try to eat a few bites. You can do it. Paws Crossed and POTP coming your way buddy.
Your LONG LONG TIME FUREND,
Frankie and Ernie

Tillie and Georgia said...

Jasper, we send you lots of purrs and support.
We send purrs to your Mom and Dad too
No matter what, we love you.
Purrs Tillie and Georgia,
Treasure,Tiger, JJ and Julie

The Crew said...

Dear old friend, we are sending our best purrs your way.

The Crew & Crew's Mom

Bev Green said...

Oh sweet boy ,we have just seen a post about you on Brians bloggie,though we do not know you we know of the sadness mum and dad must be feeling at you being so nwell..we send purrs and prayers for you and hugs for mum and dad Fozziemum xx

Nerissa said...

Oh Ginger... Oh Ginger Jasper...

The peep reminded me my Great Auntie Kelsy went through much the same thing and what got her through it was Cat Milk. Wonderful stuff is that Cat Milk.

Together, you and your mum and dad will make the best decisions for you and in the meantime, know that EVERYONE LOVES YOU. Everyone in your family at home and everyone in your family here on the blogosphere. Everyone.

Purrs,
Nissy

Oskar said...

We all love you so much GJ & parents!

Sending prayers.

Hugs & love,
Oskar & Pam

Kjelle Bus said...

Hugs and purrs and prayers, GJ <3

The Cat From Hell said...

GJ we is purraying furry hard for yous and for your pawrents. Wes Loves yous
Kisses
Nellie, Kozmo, Jo-jo, the hairy slobbery sisters, Bob and Cinnamon and Mommy

Mr. Pip said...

Sending you lots of love and healing wishes!

Pattyskypants said...

GJ, my furrend, I can see you're in the meatloaf position. I just want you to know you are and will always be one of mai fafurrite furrends of all time! If there is anything I or mai mom and pop can do to help you, please let us know. xxoo Bhu

da tabbies o trout towne said...

meowloz ginger jasper. we haz knot had de privelage oh meeting ewe til now; we wanted ta suggest a few things ta yur mum & dad that mite help a wee bit. pleez tell them ta try sardeenz, ore tuna. all sew catnip helps boost an appetite. a B12 shotz frum yur vet and nutri cal may werk two. we wish ewe de best N send de blessings oh St Francis yur way. we noe onlee two well what yur mum & dad iz goin thru. hugs frum de land oh trout~~~~

Nola said...

Love and POTP headed your way.
Nola

Spitty-the-Kitty said...

My beloved furiend, You and your pawrents are being surrounded by all the love we all have to share with you. You are the best, GJ. And your Mum and Dad too. XOXOXOXO
Spitty and his Human

Rosie&Mousie said...

Praying hard for yous.

Rosie&Mousie(Louche Tabby)

Jacqueline said...

Oh, precious GJ, we will continue to purr and pray for you, darling boy...You are loved by so many, sweetheart and we all just want you to get better; we know your wonderful parents will make the very best decisions for your care...We are sending big hugs to your sweet parents and lots of kisses to you, dear friend; wishing you all comfort at this difficult time...WE LOVE YOU WITH ALL OUR HEARTS, GJ...XOXOXOXOXOXO...J, Calle, Halle, Sukki, Mommy Cat, Daddy Cat

Derby, Ducky said...

GJ we are sending loving purrs to you. We know your mum and dad will do what is best for you.

Oui Oui said...

Oh, sweet JG, we are so very sorry to hear you are dong so poorly. Our hearts bleed for you and your parents. We know how much they love you and worry over you. We wish there was something we could do, but know we are with you in heart and spirit. Our prayers and purrs are with all of you. We wish you would feel better soon.

Angel MoMo and Charlotte said...

Oh GJ, we are so sorry that you are feeling so poorly. Purrs and prayers to you and your family.

TwoSpecialWires said...

I'm so very sad. I don't even know what to say. So I'll just hold Jake and Fergi close ... and cry.

We love you, Ginger Jasper ManCat. And your lovely and loving Mum and Dad. You all hold a very special place in our hearts, and you have for a long time.

xxxxxxxx
Sally and the pups

Nikita & Elvira said...

Hugs purrs and puurayers your way, from us, GJ!

Harvey Button said...

Jasper, you and Mum have our love. Our Weasley was a little guy who yelled like you do - it worried Mum but someon said it was old age. Whatever you do DON'T worry about letting anyone down EVER OK?? You are here and we love you, Tell Mum we love her very much too and know she worried.

You have our love, our care and every ounce of our hope for a good and loving outcome for you all.

Bless sweet Jasper.

Harvey Button, Miranda Kitten, Silver, and Mum Marjorie

Amber DaWeenie said...

Sending you lots of hugs. Please feel better soon and start eating again.

Boo-Bah AKA Iris said...

On Ginger J. you must try to eat. We are so sorry that you aren't doing well. We send hugs and prayers.
xoxoxo

Texas, a Cat in... Austin said...

Awww GJ, you have to eat a little more. This is really worrying. We are all sending purrs to you so that you find your appetite!

san said...

Dear GJ
All of us here wish you all the best and wish that you would get better. We know how it feels.

caspersmom said...

Oh Ginger Jasper, I am praying for you and your Mom and Dad. All the first timer cat blogger kitties have been disappearing and it hurts my soul. All the first timers are so very special. You are such a sweet boy and so special. Hugs, purrs and prayers for you sweet GJ. God Bless

Love
Cleopatra and Mom Monica

THE ZOO said...

Poor Ginger Jaspurr. We hope so much for you to get better soon. Purrs and headbutts to you all.

Kitties Blue said...

Sorry we haven't been around in quite sometime. Our humans keep going away and leaving us with no means to comment. We wish you weren't doing so poorly. We are adding you to our prayer list. Tell your mum that our mom really likes her tattoo. Our mom has our blog logo on the back of her right calf. Purrs and hugs, Lily Olivia, Mauricio, Misty May, Giulietta, Fiona, Astrid, Lisbeth and Calista Jo

Percy the Cat said...

We are purring super hard for you, GJ buddy.
And mum sends hugs for your mum and dad, and scritches for you.

meowmeowmans said...

GJ, just know that we all love you so very much, sweet boy. We are purring for you, and for Mum and Dad, too.

Katie and Glogirly said...

Oh sweet GJ... we are sending our very best and most powerful purrs & prayers to you and your mum. We are so very sorry you are feeling badly and frail. We know you are both probably scared too.

We're thinking of you, sweetie.
lots of love,
Glogirly, Katie & Waffles

Photo Cache said...

dear ginger jasper....we purr really hard for you. please get well sweetie.

emma and buster

Clooney said...

Oh GJ, you are one of our favorite Mancats, we love you very much. We know that where you are is a hard place to be for you and heartbreaking for your Mum and Dad. We send you all our love, purrs and prayers and wish the very best for you. Know that you are loved and adored by many throughout the world and may the love help you and your Mum and Dad.

Team Tabby said...

Dear GJ, just know that we are thinking of you and sending our love. We will keep you in our thoughts prayers.

Purrs and hugs,
Mindy
Moe
Cookie
Mike

Katz Tales said...

Gj, we're sending our best purrs to you and your mum and dad. We're so worried about you sweetheart. Thinking of you.

Cory said...

Sending you our most comforting purrs.

Chesney Cats said...

Oh GJ, we are so furry sorry that you are going through all this. You look so sad & that makes us sad. we are sending healing, loving purrs & hugs to you & your family. <3

dArtagnan Rumblepurr/Diego Hamlet Moonfur said...

GJ, our hearts are just broken for you and your humans, I know how much they love you... Rumblemum has tears in her eyes just thinking about it all.

You're a very, very special boy GJ. When it's your time to go to the bridge our Inigo and all the kitties that have come before will be there to greet you.

I wish there was something we could do or say. We will keep you in our thoughts and purrs.

Fur Everywhere said...

We is so sorry to hear this. Maybe your mom or dad can syringe feed you? That won't be so fun, but then you might have more in your tummy.

Please hang in there, GJ. We loves yous!!

Purrs,
Carmine, Milita, and Jewel

Molly The Wally said...

Oh no GJ you must try and take it easy and find some strength to eat. We pray that you will be better. You are in our thoughts and prayers as are your mum and dad. Sending healing vibes and POTP.
Best wishes Molly

Poppy Q said...

Awww sweet GJ - we hope you find some comfort and peace. We are glad that you have your lovely mum and dad to take care of you and look after you honey.

All our love.
Julie and Poppy Q
xxx

Mach said...

Hi, Ginger Jasper, mommy and daddy. Came across your predicament on Brian's blog.
Have you tried intravenous drip? It can help as a liquid food source for energy and help to wash out any toxins from the system.
It's what I did for my renal cat and it helps with lessening the load on his kidneys and perks him up when he feels down.
Love, Mach

Mach said...

I'm sorry, just to add that I meant subcutaneous drip, just the needle under the skin and not through the vein.
Love, Mach [machryin@gmail.com]

MISS PEACH ~(^.^)~ said...

OUR BELOVED FRIENDS....we are so sad for your troubled times right now. Please know that you are loved in the highest form no matter what comes, you have made a difference in our lives and the lives of all of those who you have touched over the years of friendships formed.
We see our little dolly looking up at you from the hearthside...she is filled with love from us. Bless your precious heart little Ginger man...
softest hugs to you Carol and Barrie from the cozy cottage

TK and Pip said...

Our love is also with you and your family, sweet Jasper. Purrs and prayers.

TK and Pip said...

Our love is also with you and your family, sweet Jasper. Purrs and prayers.

Caren Gittleman said...

Oh GJ, we are purring and praying with all of our might that you will eat. It is so hard to be an older kitty. We are so sad. Praying you will rebound...we love you and your Mum and Dad GJ!
xoxoxo

Jobi and Fisher said...

We are sending a lot of love and purrs your way, sweet one, and to your mom and dad, too.

Timmy Tomcat said...

I know you are now eating Ginger Jasper my dear friend.
Love and support to Mom and Dad and you of course.
Love Timmy and Family

The Boys and Karen said...

GJ and all, we just learned about you, Jasper. We're sorry to learn you're not well. We'll keep you in our thoughts and purryers.